There’s a certain inevitability implied in
that line of Richard Rodger’s. How he should have finished it was, "….he
usually bites a child." Now I’m not saying that Beardies are biters,
fortunately most of them are very tolerant of kids, but most any dog has a
threshold and if it’s crossed he will bite, and 50% of the time those
bitten will be children under the age of 14. So what can we do to prevent
it?
First some more statistics: One third of all dog bites are from dog’s
owned by the child’s own family. Children aged 7 to 9 are twice as likely
to be bitten if their family owns a dog. This isn’t to say that children
don’t benefit from owning dogs, they certainly do. Dogs give love and
companionship. Children that own dogs are more likely to read and engage
in social interactions. They generally grow up to be more humane. However,
what is it about having a dog that puts these kids at greater risk? Could
it be their attitude to dogs has become more casual – familiarity breeds
contempt? Of course, opportunity must exist in order for a bite to occur,
and these are the kids that are exposed to dogs most. Fearful parents make
fearful kids and they avoid dogs and are less likely to be in harm’s way.
An article in the latest issue of the Journal of the American Veterinary
Medical Association (August 15, 2001) by Molly Love and Dr. Karen Overall
looked at the stages of development of dogs and children to see how they
might influence the risk of being bitten. It’s a novel approach and quite
instructive.
Canine Development.
Puppies use their mouths and paws to explore just as infants do,
but lacking opposable thumbs they tend to rely more on their teeth and
mouths. Even though he’s not being aggressive the mouthy puppy can still
inflict painful bites and become a real nuisance if his teething isn’t
redirected to appropriate objects at this stage. Persistent mouthiness in
adult dogs is harder to retrain and liable to be much more destructive and
painful. My favorite game with a mouthy puppy is to act like a
litter-mate, if he nips squeal with the appropriate force depending on how
much it hurts, if it persists, stop the game. You can give him a bone or
chew toy, but he doesn’t get to play with you. This is a tough game for
children though, they should never be left unsupervised with a young puppy
or the games can get out of hand really fast.
When the dog reaches puberty (6 to 9 months usually) he becomes
more interested in social and sexual behaviour. He is smelling everything,
he becomes more inclined to roam, mark and fight. He may also start
mounting behaviour. This is generally more about social signaling than
sex, but kids can encourage it – they find it funny, or are scared by it.
The dog is harder for the child to control at this age. Spaying/neutering
and walking the dog in a Gentle Leader head collar will make him easier to
handle and for the children to be actively involved in his training.
Dogs reach social maturity at about 18 to 24 months (range 12
–36 months). They have fine-tuned their social skills with humans and
other dogs, and may have assumed very different identities than those they
had as puppies. Behavioural problems tend to manifest now or become more
intense. Dogs that were previously tolerant of children pushing or pulling
them about and forcing them down, may be less so now, and take such
assaults as challenges to their social status.
The older dog may be beginning to get arthritis, his eyesight
and hearing are going and his reflexes and responses are slower. Patience
and desire to interact with children may be reduced, especially if the dog
is in pain. It is hard for kids to appreciate that the elderly don’t have
their energy and healthy young bodies.
Child development
Piaget and Erikson have defined 5 stages of development in children
from infancy through age 12. These are based on gross motor, cognitive and
social skills.
The newborn to 6-month-old infant arrives in a flurry of new
smells and sounds. Parents are tired and especially if this is the first
child the dog may go from being the center of attention to out in the
cold. Schedules fall apart at the very least.
As the baby grows she may reach out and grab – and we know how tight
they can hang on – bits of hair, an ear, tail or a lip. Towards the end of
this stage they are sitting independently and some are creeping or
crawling. (Then there are the terrors in the baby walkers!) Most dog bites
at this stage are to the face, neck and head. A dog can bite with a force
of 400lbs/in2. It’s no wonder that the death rate from dog
bites in infants is 340 times that of 40-year-old adults. The flapping,
flailing, squalling baby can look and sound an awful lot like a wounded
prey animal too. Dogs that are anxious or uncertain in novel situations
pose the most risk at this age.
For the 6 to 24 month old child mobility is increasing as she
learns to crawl, cruise and finally walk. She is unsteady on her feet, and
trips a lot. The dog can knock her down inadvertently even just by wagging
his tail. Likewise when focussed on a goal the toddler doesn’t let
anything get in her way, even the old, cranky dog lying on the floor. She,
like the puppy, explores a lot with her mouth, and this includes the dog
itself, its food, toys, bones and other valued objects. This kid is
unpredictable. For a dog that values consistency, that is anxious, has
shown any tendency to guard his food or other possessions or one that is
painful, this kid is hell on wheels. Parents need to pay close attention
at this age. The dog needs to be protected from constant groping and
grabbing at his body, the pencil in the ear or finger in the eye. Parents
need to be aware of the subtle signals the dog is giving that he’s had it,
because otherwise they may feel the bite was unprovoked, when they just
missed the warnings.
The two to five year old period is a time when children learn to
control their gross motor skills increasingly well. However, curiosity and
exploratory behaviours increase. They are still very egocentric and are
not great generalizers, they don’t learn from their mistakes. They do not
understand consequences, but are beginning to show empathy. Imagination
and fantasy play emerge, as the toddler becomes a preschooler. The family
dog may find himself called upon to play parts in their self-scripted
dramas – including being a stand in for the missing pony. He may be
dressed up, forced to eat and drink at the tea parties at which his
attendance is obligatory etc. His food may even be taken for the parties.
His sleep is liable to abrupt interruption. Little friends appear on the
scene increasingly and his tormentors can seem to increase exponentially.
Now as never before this dog needs a place where he can get away and avoid
unwanted attention. Children need to be instructed more than ever not just
that they must be nice to the dog, but what exactly that entails. With our
Beardies we may begin to see unwanted herding behaviour. While this can
have positive results, it stopped my kids from running in the house until
my son thought he could outrun the Beardies – he never could – some dogs
will nip and become aggressive if the creatures they are trying to herd
just ignore them.
The five to nine year old child still has intense curiosity, and
at least early on in the stage still tends to lack the ability to make
generalizations. She is beginning to question authority increasingly and
who and what will be obeyed. Parental supervision tends to decline at this
stage. Kids may be more organized too and can gang up on the dog. Their
interactions with the dog are more likely to include punishment and
teasing. Their idea of training the dog may be to tie it up, drag it
around or physically abuse it for perceived infractions. Often the child
sees nothing wrong with her behaviour. She plays with the dog as she plays
with her friends, she loves her dog, she just doesn’t realize that the dog
has no idea they are playing for him this is all in deadly earnest. Five
to nine year old boys have the highest rate of dog bite injury. This
correlates with their high energy; need to control their environment; poor
deductive and generalization skills; inability to grasp the concept of
teasing; and decreased parental supervision. Little boys do tend to be
more aggressive in their play, whether it is inherent or learned
behaviour, than little girls.
The nine to twelve year old, preadolescent child has entered
Piaget’s concrete operations phase. They can handle concepts, organize
facts, solve problems and consider more than one aspect of a situation at
a time. They are able to consider the feelings of others and their peer
group is becoming increasingly important. At this stage kids can take a
more responsible role in pet care, although no child is going to be able
to take on full care of an animal and shouldn’t be expected to. Sadly this
is the stage at which purposefully abusive and rough behaviour can appear.
They may test their own and the dog’s limits – Josh’s running speed was a
fairly benign form of this, but it can involve excessive teasing, testing
the dog’s physical tolerance and inciting the dog to violent behaviour.
While kids this age are intellectually capable of understanding how to
react in a given situation, freeze, make yourself small, look away when
approached by a strange dog that is acting aggressively, their excitement
and fear may over-ride this knowledge and they will flee in panic. While
it is certainly a good idea to introduce kids in this age group to the
concept of dog bite avoidance by teaching them to understand what a dog is
saying by its body language, this may still not be enough to protect them
from injury. Even with these kids avoiding situations in which they are at
risk of injury, and supervision of the child’s interaction with the family
pet is still advisable.
While kids in families with dogs get bitten more often, a child who is
frightened of dogs may still be at greater risk. If she screams and flails
around in fear she may make an attractive target, especially for predatory
dogs. Some dogs may also perceive the behaviour as an invitation to play
and jump up and knock the child down. For some dogs a human on its back
may become a prey species at this point. Dogs come with different
personalities; their breed and personal experience with children may color
these. Some dogs become intensely fixated and can get stroppy if their
needs aren’t met, such as the retriever or terrier that has to have the
ball thrown for him time after time. The personality of the child is
important too. At first glance the highly active, Energizer bunny child,
laughing and constantly on the go might seem at more risk. However, the
focused child who fails to see the dog lying across her path as she walks
reading or looking at the stars may be in equal danger. Clearly dogs with
a history of aggression pose a greater threat, and children with ADD or
AD/HD, oppositional defiance disorder or similar problems as well as those
with a history of abuse or as abusers and children with mental or physical
handicaps are at increased risk.
How to minimize the risk
Supervision – children under the age of 6 cannot be expected to show
discretion in their handling of dogs. Even with older kids parents should
keep a discrete eye on interactions between child and dog and make sure
things aren’t getting out of hand. If there is no adult to closely
supervise the interactions of young children and dogs they should be
physically separated. Be particularly vigilant with visiting children or
if the dog is sick or tired or if either or both are upset.
Avoid potentially dangerous situations. Any situation that could stress
or make either the child or dog anxious should prompt preventative action.
Examples would be car rides involving children and dogs – kids in car
seats, dogs in crates; visits of strangers; illness; death; birth; parties
and holiday celebrations – it is generally kindest to separate the dog
entirely and put him in a crate somewhere quiet, especially at children’s
birthday parties; the approach of strange dogs on walks with the family
pet.
Education. Teach the child by example and help to pet the dog gently,
to respect his space, not to take his food or wake him suddenly, not to
jump on him when he’s pooping. Teach her never to approach stray dogs
especially if they look sick or injured, and to only approach those with
an owner if the owner gives the OK. Teach her not to try and break up
dogfights, but go for help. Teach her not to tease, startle or mistreat
dogs; not to reach for them over fences, in crates or in cars; not to run
at them, roller blade or skateboard past them, not to get them riled up by
barking at them or staring them down. Teach her how to be a responsible
and reliable dog owner, one who respects her dog’s needs.
Learn to recognize warning signals that the dog gives which show the
child is stressing him. These can include: an acute change in normal
behaviour – withdrawal, circling, pacing, patrolling, change in amount or
character if vocalization; change in appetite, or the dog will only eat if
the child is absent, or he starts to guard his food; increased reactivity
- barking, growling, patrolling, lunging; change in resting or sleep or
the chosen location for these; signs of separation anxiety when left alone
with child, whining, destruction, elimination, salivation, increase or
decrease of activity; gastrointestinal signs of stress – vomiting,
regurgitation, diarrhea; frank aggression around children.
We love our kids and grandkids and we love our Beardies. With careful
supervision and paying close attention to what we are seeing they can be
the best of buddies, but they need us to provide them with help and
guidance. Sometimes the two just can’t get along. At such times it is
kinder to find the dog a new home without children.